Don’t be a moaner!
We all know a moaner. A person who always has something going wrong in their life and wants to tell everyone about it. A permanent pessimist who, for them, everything is a struggle and life is really tough. Having a conversation with a moaner can be really, really mentally draining. There is definitely a place for sharing, talking through and offloading your hardships, in fact, it is really healthy and important that you do find someone to do that with. But, this should probably be with a select few really close friends or family members, you should really avoid sharing your hardships with everyone. If someone asks you how you are doing, my advice would be to say that you are doing great and then ask them how they are and what they have been up to (remember, questions are king!).
People love to love a positive person. Someone who, when asked, is doing great and is really enjoying life. Positive people are really popular people and are universally well-liked because they do not mentally drain anyone.
Find an avenue to share your troubles and challenges, with everyone else – share the positivity. ‘I’m doing great thanks! How are things going for you?’
Step 6!
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